The more I speak with those in our groups, I see these ridiculous similarities in our situations. I jokingly said it is as if these abusers all took a class called "Ruining lives 101." Except honestly, I think they all have their master's degrees. They're pros at destroying.
The past few weeks have been heavy. Just lots of balls to juggle and annoying setbacks. My health hasn't been the best. I had a back issue last week and this week a pretty intense cold with chest congestion. Single mommas don't have time for sickness or inability to function!
He has spent his time and energy opposing my every move though he does nothing to make his child's life better. I will never understand the need to negatively affect the life of the only parent your child has. To hear someone lie about you (under oath even) and just massacre your character is tough. But I knew that I just had to stand in the truth and the evidence. His arguments held no weight and almost instantly the judge disliked his cocky nature. I realized very quickly that he would sink his own ship, and he most certainly did. Glad to leave that behind and keep MOVING FORWARD.
These abusers might be excellent at destruction, but we are wonderful at rebuilding. And that matters much more. Be encouraged tonight, those of you who are in the trenches trying fo work your way out. I know it's hard-but you're not alone.