thought that I could do it quicker than other people. Ha...well, I've learned that there
is no rushing it or you'll just have to do it over again later on.
Helping your heart to seal up those cracks that remain from an abusive relationship
takes as much time as it takes. Getting on your feet financially after someone leaves you to clean up all their debt mess takes as much time as it takes too. And that's ok. I'll keep working. I'll keep supporting us. It is the right thing to do. He'll consistently keep doing the wrong thing. Life has shown me that quite clearly.
I'm happy to have a support group that offers me some perspective. It's an outlet for chatting about the garbage. This month held a lot of crud to deal with, but deal, we did. Like the little woodpecker, I'm tap tap tapping away at all of this so that I can see the fruits of my labor in the life that we'll be able to live.
Flying away from him like the free bird that I am!